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Would be familiar with the terms of this one, “SAMARA”. Alias “Sakinah”, “Mawaddah” wa “Mercy”. The term was more familiar sound in the ear when there are our friends or relatives who are married.
All three also each have a meaning. “Sakinah” means quiet, peaceful. “Mawaddah” means love, hope. And “Mercy” means the casing dear.
However, those three things, for I [started to smile yourself], it is still not complete without this one. Like cooking, it feels incomplete without seasoning as this one [smiles slightly wide].
Not quite sakinah mawaddah warahmah. There is one more element that must not be missed. Namely “MT”. Yes, of the many meanings in words, I am more inclined to the meaning of “MT” which means “Education”.
Someone who is already married and later married, would that apart from being a tranquil family full of love and affection casing, also coupled with a higher education. Do not get married if both husband, wife, children do not even have and get an education.
The husband and wife who later acted as father and mother, of course MANDATORY law to understand what to do in his house later. Can distinguish between what is good and bad. Know how true worship, including those that will be taught to the Son later.
This, of course can only be achieved by their education, both formal and non-formal. Especially on religious education (moral, religious services, etc.). Why religious education? Because it is a key element in shaping ruhiyah and good manners. Both the poor man started from there, from ruhiyah and attitude. And the two most efektik is implanted through religious education from an early age, for their children someday.
Moreover, speaking of education means talking a knowledgeable person. In the Qur’an it says:
“Allah will exalt those who believe among you and those who were given some degree of knowledge.” (QS. Al-Mujadillah paragraph 11)
Knowledge gained from education is certainly effective. That is why I personally say the need for one more element apart from Sakinah Mawaddah wa Rahmah (SAMARA), namely MT alias educated, knowledgeable. So, if shorted not “SAMARA” anymore, but “SARAMATA” stands for “Sakinah, mawaddah, wa Rahmah, wa tarbiyah”.
Thus, “SAMARATA” means being tranquil family, loving, affectionate casing, and educated.
Hopefully, those four elements can be achieved to anyone who air-household. Aamiin …
That’s my opinion. May be useful.. 🙂
This is not just advice and not just words of wisdom. It is the soul of many drugs of mental illness that exists. This is also the law to bring happiness to the human psyche, even true, this word choice is human speech, ie the Holy Prophet. It is very important if we hold fast to the words above because the human soul would be good if clinging to these words. One’s faith will not be perfect but with these words carry meaning. Messenger of Allah said, “One of you is not said to believe, to love his brother as well as love itself,” (Muttafaq ‘alaih)
When you love your brother like you love yourself, you will feel roomy chest, your soul feels tranquil, and you will feel the peak of satisfaction. Only then you will feel the sweetness of faith. Sweetness of faith can not be perceived by the tongue, but with heart. You also will feel the happiness of the whole soul. Do you know why this might happen? Because the happiness you are getting, when you break away from hatred and filled with love. The happiness you are getting when you take off the black dots. These black dots could be envy, hatred, resentment, envy, and so forth.
All the ugliness that has started over and fall when you begin to love your brother as well as love yourself. That’s when you feel ketengan soul.
If the question is, why do you feel envious of your brother? The answer is because you love yourself more. You wish there was a kindness to yourself hoping there was a kindness to yourself and do not expect it happen other than you. When you love than you are just as loving yourself, feeling it will gone.
Sometimes you can say, “Everyone is loving herself,” Yes, indeed, and I do not want you to love others instead of loving yourself because the degree of this kind can only be achieved by few. They are as stated in the Qur’an, “… They give priority to (those immigrants), for themselves even if they require (what they give it )……”( al-Hasyr: 9)
They are a special group among the believers. I only ask you to love your brother like to love yourself, and that you hope happens kindness to your brother as much as you hope the good that happens to you.
If you prefer the interests of your brothers in faith rather than self-interest, while at that moment you need it, it means you like the degree of their degrees. If you have come to the degree that, means you become a high degree and position you to be noble in the sight of Allah swt.
So that made by great men, “They put others above themselves. Even though they need what they give it. “When you arrive at this degree, you will feel great happiness soul. Thanks to the outpouring of a sense of faith that runs through your veins, your soul will transform into a quiet life. “.. And who is saved from his miserliness, they are the ones who are lucky. “(Al-Hasyr: 9).
O Allah make us among those who gave priority to other people, for themselves. Even though they need what they provide this.
To achieve success in life is needed confidence. Confidence will strengthen intelligence capabilities in realizing the desire or goal to be achieved. confident attitude must be followed by consistent or firm in the conviction of the truth. uphold the truth becomes a very valuable lesson and be consistent in working and struggling in life is very important. once you set the attitude that must be executed after utilizing the potential of reason) and believe the truth, then you must be consistent with those attitudes. Do not you be a wishy-washy and not steadfast in upholding the principle.
Some people think that Islam is a religion of fighting wealth and actually encourage pauperism. This is simply not true. How a Muslim to think that Islam advocated poverty, while the Prophet himself took refuge in Allah from poverty? Messenger of Allah said: “O Allah, I seek refuge in You from disbelief and poverty.” (Reported by Ibn an-Nasa’i and Hibban). Notice how the Messenger of Allah, to include the word kufr with the word poor. How can Islam encourage pauperism, while Allah has given the pleasure of His Prophet in the form of wealth, as in His word. “Did He not find you an orphan, and He will protect you? Did He not find one that is confused, then he gave the instructions. Did He not find a shortage, then He gives sufficiency. “(ADH-Dhuhaa :6-8). Holy Prophet has also praised the pious rich man as the word of the Prophet.: “The best treasure is owned by someone who is pious.” (Reported by Ahmad and al-Haakim). Islam does not advocate poverty, but seeks to improve the perspective of rich meaning, Rich according to Islam is not seen in the number of properties owned by someone, but rather a sense of satisfaction and pleasure with something that is obtained, either much or little. Wealth, in essence is in the feeling of the soul and not on what a person has. For example, Ahmad has the money ten thousand pounds. He was satisfied with his work.he was also pleased with the sustenance which God gave him. He is also a sense of airy breasts because she worked and earned money by that amount. This is called rich. Osama has the money of one million pounds. However, he did not feel satisfied with that amount of money because he needs a larger number than that. He was worried if the money is reduced. He also was not pleased with the outcome of trade which has resulted in money. He feels the need is greater than the money he had because he thought, that money should be doubled, he was not content to accept. As a result, he continues to seek additional and do not feel pleasure. Even he was worried with his future. This has included indigent, despite having a lot of property. Messenger of Allah said: “Rich is not because of the many treasures, but the so-called rich are rich people.” (Bukhari and Muslim). If you want to be rich, you should be working, then pleased with the provision that God has blessed you. Also, praise God for His provision. All this will not prevent you from looking for something more Afdhal, it’s just not to feel anxious with the property that you own. Property is increasing or decreasing the power of God and you do not have power over it, we just plan and do, while the results, receive with pleasure any circumstances. Blessed are you with what God blessed. That way, you’ll be rich someday. The main causes of fatigue and anxiety felt by the people is a sense of concern for wealth and ambition to the world searching with greedy and blind love. They felt as if the world was going to go away from them. This is a very dangerous infectious diseases. This disease has been passed to us through the media information that has been given to show us that there is a battle of wealth and money in the world. Media information is western media device information that was known to be glorifying money and cheering. This is what makes people breathless exhaustion pursue wealth for various benefits that are not get enough of. Even worse, they look for additional benefits and try to find a variety of ways regardless of the halal or haraam. In addition, they also do not pay attention to the rights of others and the poor. It is a source of disease materialistic life that knows no measure, except on the basis of wealth. They are not in a relationship except as property. As a result, people who do not own property will be underestimated and is considered worthless, even though that person has a high morality. As we said, that Islam is opposed to if the property used as the size and weight among fellow human beings.
Therefore, the Messenger of Allah willing to correct understanding about this among his companions as in the following hadith. Sahl ra said: “a man (rich) passes in front of the Messenger of Allah, then the Messenger of Allah said, ‘What do you say about this guy?” They (the companions) said,’ This man if he would apply accepted. If he gives a recommendation, he will be obeyed. And if he says he will be heard. “Sahl said, ‘Then the Prophet was silent. Then a man destitute of the Muslims passed by, then the Prophet of Allah said, ‘What do you say about this guy? “They (the companions) said,’ If people are applying for, he will not be accepted. If she gives the recommendations he had not obeyed, and if he says, he does not listen. So the Messenger of Allah said, ‘This poor man is better than the rest of this earth than the rich. “(Bukhari and others). So rich is not everything. Property owner is not the most important. Size of piety who introduced Islam to compare human beings with one another. . Do not let it flow materialistisme, make us forget for a close social relationships. Do not let the media facilities information with sparkle material, makes us breathless pursuit of the material, and do not make us sad and worried just because the material. As a result we had to forget that real wealth is in the soul before it is in the material. Please know that even if someone is rich, it is useless if it remains stricken with anxiety. Make treasure and wealth in Allah.